Mindful Eating

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When clients come to me for advice about healthy eating, I first like to address their current eating habits and help them understand why they make the choices they make.

So how do we bring mindfulness to our eating habits? By shifting our focus from what we feel we “should” be eating (which immediately creates a certain level of anxiety, tension in the body and feelings of deprivation when we avoid what we crave), to bringing real awareness into how we make the choices we make.

Here’s my 5-step strategy for getting you started with a more mindful approach to healthy eating:

As with anything, it takes practice but, in the long-term, the rewards are so much greater than the stresses of yo-yo dieting.

1. What are the triggers?

Notice what’s going on around you when you feel that compulsive urge to go for the packet of biscuits (or whatever your thing is) and find yourself eating the whole lot.

2. What thoughts are you having?

When you feel the need to eat what you innately know isn’t going to nourish you, look at the thoughts you’re having in that moment. What is it about those biscuits that you think is going to make you happier?

3. What sensations do you feel in the body?

Are you feeling stressed, tense, anxious? Where in the body are you feeling that tension?

4. Observe without judgment!

Just notice what thoughts you’re having and the sensations in your body. Whether you still eat the biscuits or not doesn’t matter. Noticing and observing without beating yourself up is really the key at this stage.

5. Take action!

In that moment of awareness, ask yourself, am I really hungry … or am I actually just thirsty, bored, a bit stressed?

It’s in that moment that it becomes possible to respond differently to the triggers:

  • Perhaps have a glass of water or a cup of tea instead;
  • You may need to relax; taking a few full deep breaths and exhaling slowly for a minute or so immediately triggers the parasympathetic nervous system which so often will remove the reason for reaching for the biscuits in the first place;
  • If it’s boredom, then put your trainers on and go for a power walk or run. Moving the body is one of the best ways to shift negative energy!
  • Even if you wouldn’t normally write “stuff” down, we all know the power of seeing our goals written, so just jot down any observations, say, for a week. I’ve found this hugely helpful both personally and when coaching clients. Seeing a pattern emerge can so often bring about a lightbulb moment.

Understanding why we make the choices we make, is a fast-track way to implementing long-term changes to any patterns of behaviour as we are empowered to respond positively rather than react in an unconscious negative way.

Bring a degree of mindfulness to your eating habits for a week and notice the difference. And if this post interests you, please check out our other Mind Matters posts here on Integrated Wellbeing.

With love and wellbeing wishes,

Chrissie Tarbitt - Integrated Wellbeing

Yoga with Chrissie in 2016

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This is just a quick reminder that my yoga classes at the lovely Ocean Physio studio in Woodbury begin again in January.

The first classes of the new term are on Wednesday 20th and Thursday 21st January 2016.

Classes are kept intentionally small (with no more than 10 students) to ensure maximum benefit.  All times are the same as last term.

Spring Schedule

  • Wednesday mornings (60 minutes): 7.15 – 8.15 am
  • Thursday mornings (60 minutes): 9.30 – 10.30 am

Prices are unchanged too. Adult classes are £8 for a 60-minute class or £42 for a 6-week block.

I still have a few available slots for private yoga tuition for individuals or small groups, either at the Woodbury studio or in your own home (where appropriate).

You’ll find the Ocean Physio & Rehab studio at:
Woodbury Business Park, Woodbury, Devon, EX5 1AY.

For class reservations, please call Ocean on 01395 239455. For other yoga or class content queries, drop me a line at chrissie[at]integratedwellbeing.co.uk.

With love and wellbeing wishes,

Chrissie Tarbitt - Integrated Wellbeing

Rest & Restore Workshop

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I’m excited to share with you news of my forthcoming Rest & Restore Winter Workshop.  Join me in this lovely, peaceful, light and airy studio in Woodbury for a morning of “you” time.  

Sunday 6th December: 10.00am – 12.30pm

Ocean Physio & Rehab Clinic, Woodbury Business Park, EX5 1LD


  • 9:45  Arrival.
  • 10:00 – 10:45  Introduction to Mindfulness, Meditation and powerful Yogic breathing techniques which you can easily incorporate into your daily lives to bring about that all important sense of calm and peace just when you need it most!
  • 10:45 – 11:30  I shall then guide you through a gentle yin yoga session which will focus on allowing the body and mind to fully let go.
  • 11:30 – 12:00  Yoga Nidra – deep yogic relaxation.
  • 12:00 – 12:30  Finally, some time to share some home-made, cold-pressed juices and raw, vegan snacks before heading home.

Places are limited to 10 people per workshop so don’t miss out if you want to help banish winter blues or just need to rejuvenate before the busy festive period! 

The cost of the workshop is £25 per person with 50% of the proceeds being donated to Leukaemia Care as part of my various half-marathon sponsorship efforts. Book direct via the secure Eventbrite site here: Rest & Restore Workshop

No previous experience is necessary. I’ll provide mats, blocks and blankets. Please wear appropriate clothing.

I look forward to seeing you there!

With wellbeing wishes,

Chrissie Tarbitt - Integrated Wellbeing

A Great Relaxation Technique

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I love this simple breathing technique called Anuloma Viloma or alternate nostril breathing. It’s been used by yoga practitioners for millennia.

Simply by practising a few rounds of alternate nostril breathing for a few minutes each day, you can calm your nervous system, boost your thinking and improve sleep. It’s also great preparation for any meditation practice.

I’ve uploaded a short “how to” video to the Chrissie TV section of the site to help get you started.

Traditionally done in a comfortable cross-legged position, you can just as effectively sit on an upright chair (dining room or kitchen chair rather than a squidgy sofa) with feet firmly on the ground.








It really is such a portable relaxation technique and, okay, you might feel a bit odd doing it at your desk at work but, you never know, others might be intrigued and want to join in!  If I’m in need of some time out, I take myself to my bedroom or hotel room (in the past when I’ve been away on business, my hotel room has provided a great sanctuary in between meetings, even if only for 5 minutes) and a few minutes of alternate nostril breathing gets me back on track.


Ancient yogis discovered that by isolating the breath this way on the left and right sides, we can reset the balance in our autonomic nervous system i.e. between our rest and digest and fight or flight sides of the brain.

Just try it – what have you got to lose?

I promise you, once you have the hang of it, you’ll want keep it handy in your stress-busting toolkit.  Use the video at Chrissie TV to guide you through the first few sessions.

Give it a go now and let me know how you get on!

With love and wellbeing wishes,

Chrissie Tarbitt - Integrated Wellbeing

Alternate Nostril Breathing (An Introduction)

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Chrissie Tarbitt of Integrated Wellbeing demonstrates the alternate nostril breathing technique, Anuloma Viloma.

Meditation: Why, How & When?

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“My top priority is for people to understand that they have the power to change things themselves.” Aung San Suu Kyi

Contemporary research in the fields of neuroscience and psychology now confirm what sages, gurus, monks and other followers of contemplative practices have known for millennia: With practice, we can train our brains and re-programme our minds to be happier, more insightful, and caring (both of ourselves and others) and ultimately live the life we choose.

What sets us apart from the rest of the animal kingdom in relation to mind matters, is that we worry about the future, feel guilty or resentful of our past and beat ourselves up about the present – ouch, no pressure then!

The primordial part of our brain that gives us our sense of threat (fight or flight response) has unfortunately not evolved in tandem with other parts of the brain. And thus anxiety about the day ahead or worry about a difficult conversation you had last week will have exactly the same effect on our minds (and therefore bodies) as it would have had thousands of years ago in the savannah preparing to flee from the teeth of wild animals.

We have no inherent way of dealing with this state of hyperarousal and for many of us the fight or flight hormones rushing around the body become a permanent state and feelings of tension, elevated heart rate, butterflies and sweaty palms are the default in our lives. We also know that this state of hyperarousal can lead to many ailments, hormone imbalances, poor sleep, headaches, muscle soreness and the list goes on. The upshot is that our overall sense of wellbeing is thrown off course in a big way.

In last month’s blog on an Introduction to Mindfulness I talked a little about how, by bringing our full attention to whatever activity we’re engaged in, we become the observer of our thoughts – this subtle shift away from reacting to those thoughts to paying attention, observing in a non-judgmental way, offers us some respite from the constant stream of self-talk (so often negative) which in turn gives us the space we need to see things for the way they really are. This will be a constant theme throughout the Mind, Body and Food Matters blogs as mindfulness and meditation can positively affect every aspect of our lives.

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Despite the fact that humans seem to be programmed to focus on the negative, the great news is that, with practice, we can re-programme our minds. I’d encourage you to explore the possibility of being able to free yourselves of negative cycles of thinking and adopt a playful almost childlike quality to this spirit of inquiry. I’ve found that the key to living a more mindful life is to develop a regular meditation practice.

I first started a daily meditation practice about 5 years ago, really not knowing what to expect (having no expectations was, I soon discovered, the most rewarding and freeing approach!), but I knew that I wanted a bit of what I had observed other regular meditators had: more inner peace, self-acceptance and self-compassion, more compassion and patience with others, along with an ability to flow with life rather than pushing and striving against the tide.


Meditation is not a contest. Meditation is a practice. There is no right or wrong way of doing it. We simply pay attention to our thoughts, notice them, drop them and focus on the breath. Drop any need to know whether you are doing the right kind of meditation. The part of us that wants to know is the same part of us that has pre-conceived ideas of right and wrong ways.


As this is a practice, it’s helpful to choose a space that you can go back to every time; this could be a corner of any room in the house where you won’t be disturbed. Traditional meditation practice involves sitting cross-legged with a straight spine, if possible with the knees below the hips to form a firm triangular base, the crown of the head extended, eyes open or closed (choose what works for you). You can either place your hands on your knees palms down, in traditional yogic position with palms turned up forefinger and thumb touching or simply place them folded in your lap.

The important thing is to be comfortable so that your shoulders and face muscles can relax. If your hips are particularly tight or you have long legs, try using a larger meditation cushion – these come in crescent shape Zafus or full round Zafus. Alternatively, try a small meditation bench and kneel on a blanket – these are ideal if you are very tight in the hips and lower back or want to avoid any unnecessary twisting of the knees in a seated position. Equally, you can settle in a similar position sitting on a chair.

The Breath

If you have experience of yoga, then you’ll know that the use of the breath is key throughout your practice. In the same way with meditation, once settled in a comfortable quiet place, begin by lengthening your breath. Draw your attention to your breath, inhaling and exhaling through the nose, gradually slowing it down. There are many different forms of meditation; and I would encourage you to research different methods, join a group or search for videos on YouTube that resonate with you. For me, keeping it simple is key. I like to simply focus on my breath, counting 1 – 10 on each exhale. If the mind wanders, which it will, simply notice it, let the thoughts drift away without judging them and come back to the breath.


Again, there is no right or wrong time to meditate. Traditionally, meditation takes place first thing in the morning and/or in the evening. I find first thing in the morning the most convenient as I can stick to the same time 9 days out of 10. Meditating in the mornings is also a wonderful way to start the day. I get up earlier than anyone else so I get that extra 30 minutes of sanctuary – just me, my mat and my cushion.

Start with 10 minutes each day (any less than 10 minutes and I found I wasn’t giving myself a chance to experience at least a feeling of deep relaxation) and set a timer so that you are not focusing on how long you have sat for. Practice for 10 minutes a day for the first 14 days and extend this to 15 minutes for the next 14 days. If possible, write down your experience of your new practice (it doesn’t have to be after every session, but it really helps to track one’s progress).

I learned pretty quickly that one doesn’t need to be a mystic or a monk in order to reap the rewards of this kind of practice; who wouldn’t want to be able to relax almost instantly, experience a greater sense of calm in difficult situations when you might have otherwise reacted negatively and enjoy an all-round greater sense of wellbeing?

Matthieu Ricard, who has been called the happiest man in the world, is a French born Buddhist monk who, after gaining his doctorate in molecular genetics, devoted his life to Tibetan Buddhism. He has a wonderful, clear teaching style and I love this video of him talking about “The Art of Meditation” in which he not only demystifies the practice, but describes in such a practical and compelling way, all of the benefits of a regular meditation practice.

I’d love to hear from you about your meditation practice, whether you’re trying it for the first time or have years of experience. Please share your thoughts on this wonderful free wellbeing tool that’s available to us all.

With love and wellbeing wishes,


An Introduction To Mindfulness


A few years ago, my husband gave me a card (slightly tongue in cheek, but a humorous nod to my enthusiasm for my mindfulness and meditation practice), entitled ZEN DOG. It has a picture of a dog languishing in a bath tub boat, donning sunglasses, bobbing along at sea, the sun beating down on him. The words below read like this:

“He knows not where he’s going
For the ocean will decide –
It’s not the DESTINATION…
…It’s the glory of the RIDE”

I actually framed the card and it now hangs on my bathroom wall, serving as a daily reminder that striving for answers to everything or trying to second-guess the future is a pointless, energy-sapping exercise.

When I do allow myself to come away from all that’s going on in my head and notice any tension I may be holding in my body, it really is such a relief, as I know that help is at hand and it’s entirely down to me!  So, for self-confessed control freaks out there, how cool is that?!  By turning our attention to what is actually happening in the present, we are able to see the situation for what it is – we have absolute control over how we react in any given moment. That is mindfulness in a nutshell.

Mindfulness is simply being aware of what is happening right now without wishing it were different; enjoying the pleasant without holding on when it changes (which it will); being with the unpleasant without fearing it will always be this way (which it won’t).

“Go with the flow” – what a ridiculous thing to suggest when life was ALL about deadlines, rushing about to catch planes and trains, answering emails at the same time as talking on a conference call, etc., etc. – you get the picture. How could it be possible when we all have so many responsibilities and ‘to do’ lists, to “go with the flow”? I used to think that I had a high tolerance of stress but, in reality, that belief simply meant that I’d take on more responsibility and add more stress to my life!


The saying “necessity is the mother of all invention” springs to mind when I think back to the turning point in my life; to the time when I realised that if I wanted to continue functioning as the person I really wanted to be and knew deep down that I was, I’d need to make some fundamental lifestyle changes. Enter my inspiration and dear friend Shelley, fellow yogi and meditation junkie. For the next several years I went on my own wellbeing journey and soon discovered the joys of a meditation and mindfulness practice. The changes didn’t mean quitting my job and living in a yurt (I have been tempted!), but I went in search of the peace within that would enable me to regain the natural energy needed to live a happy and fulfilling life, that would fully embrace the day job, and my role as mum, wife, friend, daughter, etc.

I’ve been fortunate enough to spend time with Zen Buddhist monks and inspiring yoga teachers around the world, I’ve read many dozens of books and have attended several wonderful courses, all in pursuit of inner peace. And do you know what the single magic ingredient is that makes this all possible? The breath! How we direct our Chi, Qi, Prana or, simply, energy with the use of our breath, is the answer to living mindfully, in the moment.

In yoga we learn that the breath is the link between the mind and the body. Learning, moment by moment, to direct our attention to the present using the breath as our anchor, can be truly life-changing. It’s such a simple thing but, of course, as with many simple concepts, that isn’t synonymous with easy. Yes, it takes practice, but the rewards are instant and exponential. Every few minutes that we choose to direct our attention to the breath and relax into the body, is like having a 30-minute power nap, only much quicker and longer-lasting and no-one need notice ☺.

So, the next time you’re feeling frazzled or just out of synch with life, take 5 minutes to sit or lie down undisturbed (we can all find 5 minutes) and connect with your breath. Inhale and exhale deeply, noticing any areas of tension in the body and allowing yourself to simply relax. You wait, 5 minutes will soon become 10 and 10, 15 and so on.

You may have realised that I’m a big fan of quotes so I thought I’d sign off this introduction to mindfulness with one by Albert Einstein:

Life is a preparation for the future; and the best preparation for the future is to live as if there were none.”

Join the conversation by commenting below, and let me know your favourite life quotes too.

Until next time, enjoy the moments!

With love and wellbeing wishes,